I know very few people who enter into holy matrimony with the view to get divorced. Marriage is often entered into with a positive outlook and big dreams for the future with hardly any consideration of the potential for things going pear-shaped. The reality is that divorce is more prevalent than ever before, not just in South Africa but internationally too. According to Stats SA, 44,4% of the divorces registered in 2016, were of marriages that […]
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When the tax is black
Our country’s history of segregation and economic exclusion has led us to this point. Many young people who now have tertiary education and the many who have moved out of the homes and townships they grew up in are usually the first to do so in their families. This comes with a lot of pressure and expectation to support and assist their siblings, ageing parents and often, extended families as well. This, and quite obviously so, comes […]
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A new way
In our culture, when a woman gets married, she gets called into a room by aunts and other older female relatives and gets given the ‘lay of the land’. She’s taught never to question her husband about his whereabouts, to dress modestly when in the company of her in-laws, never to nag etc. I know this because I went through a similar process myself. It’s done in good faith and intended to help you navigate the […]
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A whole new world (Part 2)
My mother retired too early, the first time around. She also didn’t have a clear plan for her retirement. I remember sitting in a meeting a few years ago and getting 3 missed calls in a row from her on my mobile. I thought something was terribly wrong so I rung her back in a panic, thinking something was wrong. To my horror, all she wanted was to confirm if my brother and I were joining […]
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My mother turned 65 last month and jogs, does yoga and seems to be enjoying life now more than ever before. One of her cousins is in her late 70’s and is equally busy and looks great. She’s also still lucky enough to have her mother around who is a healthy, sparkly 90-something year old! Nothing about these women says they are slowing down anytime soon and it’s a marvel to watch. I can only hope […]
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3 financial lessons learned from my toddlers
The holidays were brutal. I spent a solid 6 weeks with 2 very energetic toddlers and got very little rest. It was a little painful. In any event, spending all that time with them reminded me of a few things that children do that can be applied to your finances, and life in general. Be selfish My children are born 2 years apart and fight constantly. Their biggest issue is having to share things – toys, […]
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Your financial journey
There are many people who profess to have the remedy for poverty, low cash flow etc. You see them all the time on social media platforms claiming to have the key to your financial future. They flash their fancy cars and expensive homes and want you to join them on this crusade. Having been in this industry for over a decade, what I can tell you for sure is this: There is no quick-fix, no matter […]
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New beginnings
You made it to the new year. Congratulations! We’d like to get you started in the new year with a new financial goal, inspired by one of the greatest investors of our time, Warren Buffet. “The most important investment you can make is in yourself.” ― Warren Buffett This not only relates to your financial wellbeing but all aspects of your life. While you’re busy making new year’s resolutions, please think about the most important factor […]
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Happy Holidays
Should you have to time read during the upcoming holidays, here’s a reading list that’s highly recommended. This comes from Sam Parr of the Hustle. He recommended this list in 2015 and according to him, you’ll know more than 99% of MBA graduates once you’ve gone through these books. I’ve read Mastery and 48 Laws of Power so far. Both great reads. “Titan: The life of John D. Rockefeller, Sr.” by Ron Chernow – A […]
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‘Tis the season…
The tinsel is strewn and the Christmas lights are up EVERYWHERE. The holidays are fast approaching and expectations are running quite high with children and what gifts they’ll be getting. There is nothing better than giving presents to children. The excitement and shear joy they experience with gifts is quite special. But, if your household is anything like mine, they already have more than enough. If you are brave, and are willing to face the tears […]
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