In our culture, when a woman gets married, she gets called into a room by aunts and other older female relatives and gets given the ‘lay of the land’. She’s taught never to question her husband about his whereabouts, to dress modestly when in the company of her in-laws, never to nag etc. I know this because I went through a similar process myself. It’s done in good faith and intended to help you navigate the complexities that come with being married and to ensure that you stay married. I suppose it was also a means for survival since men earned the money while women stayed home and tended to children.

I often try to picture how different life would be for many young women if they’d received financial advice, even the most elementary kind, in their teens and leading up to marriage. I imagine the aunts telling a young bride-to-be to open an investment account and for her to add to this money as often as she could. I picture the stern faces and hushed voices telling her to budget and for her to live within her means. And finally, and most importantly, if she ever decides to have children, she is to teach them everything she knows about healthy financial habits, as soon as they are able to grasp the concepts.

Unfortunately, we don’t talk about money. Not in the way that we should. We need to make it a habit to talk about money in a constructive way with our children and extended families (since many are either living with or supporting extended family). We need to talk about how to be responsible with money and how to grow and keep it, not just for us, but for others as well. It is possible to work towards changing the status quo for the next generation and I strongly believe that with a little guidance, we can make generational wealth a reality.

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    Nomfundo Khabela
    Posted on February 18, 2019 at 3:34 pm

    I agree fully. Great article. Thank you

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    • Gugu Sidaki
      Gugu Sidaki
      Posted on February 19, 2019 at 7:42 am

      Thanks Nomfundo!

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    Freddy Tshikala
    Posted on February 20, 2019 at 3:36 pm

    Gugu, most of us a degree or qualifications educated but financially illiterate. I have always said, if I knew about money then when I graduated; what I know now, I would have made different choices. We are navigating through this complex life without a financial compass and this becomes a generational burden.

    This service you are offering is loooooooong overdue.

    I LOVE THIS

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    • Gugu Sidaki
      Gugu Sidaki
      Posted on February 20, 2019 at 3:41 pm

      Dear Freddy

      I’m so glad this resonates with you. We hope to engage with you soon

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